Proverbs 16:21:

The wise of heart is called discerning, and sweetness of speech increases persuasiveness.

Ways wife may be the glory of her husband

Here are a few taken from a great book called "The Excellent Wife"

1. Ask your husband "What are your goals for the week and how can I help you accomplish them"
2. Be organized with cleaning, grocery shopping, laundry, and cooking. As you fulfill your God-given responsibilities, your husband is then free to do his work.
3. Save some of your energy every day for him
4. Put him first over the children, parents, friends, job, Ladies' Bible studies etc..
5. Talk about him in a positive light to others. Do NOT slander him at all even if what you are saying is true.
   
6. Do whatever you can to make him look good, to accomplish his goals. Some examples are offer to run errands for him, organize your day to be available to help him with his projects, pray for him, and make good suggestions. Give him the freedom not to use your suggestion, and do not be offended if he does not follow it.